Fostering Allies

A recent workshop at Kennesaw State University got some heat for segregating participants based on color during breakout sessions. The workshop, titled “Being, Becoming, and Fostering Allies: Building Relationships across Privilege,” asked those who identify as white to go to one room during the breakout sessions, and whose who identify as “people of color” to go to another.

The panelists, the school’s website claims, highlighted “the essential conceptual, relational, and emotional processes involved in ally development, using their long-standing relationships to illustrate key concepts and identify and model strategies for enacting ally intentions.” Panelists also explored “the ongoing process of developing and fostering allies and the challenges that emerge in these journeys,” and discussed “the essential roles of self-reflection, cultural humility action, and re-engagement after failures, as well as the qualities of relationships that facilitate ally development.”

The university claims the event was misrepresented as segregation.

“The goal of the workshop, which was led by an outside expert, was to foster learning and create an environment of understanding and support for one another,” said Kennesaw State University spokeswoman Tammy DeMel. “Attendees were asked to work together and then were invited to join the group with which they identify.”

I don’t see any mischaracterization going on.

Were the students separated by color?


Then how in frozen hell is this not segregation? Even if it’s for part of the workshop, it’s still segregation based on skin color – the very thing African Americans fought against for decades, and the very thing some of them now crave as a safe space!

Not only that, but based on the title of the workshop, these “educators” are also dividing participants based on their perception of “privilege” based on nothing but the amount of melanin in their skin!

Fact is, nearly 18 million white, non-Hispanic adults live in poverty, according to statistics released in September 2016.

Fact is, many of them live in conditions so deplorable, they are ridiculed and denigrated by everyone, including the very same people of color who claim they have privilege, for their poor dental hygiene, for the meth prevalence in their neighborhoods, and for their “trailer trash” lifestyle.

Fact is many of them are immigrants, like myself, who came here with nothing and clawed their way out of the hole.

So you know what, snowflakes? When you are so poor you have to “shop” for clothing in other people’s garbage and eat ice cubes in the summer, because unlike all your friends, your parents can’t afford to get you ice cream from the ice cream truck, and when your furniture and appliances come from others’ dumpsters, and your dad fixes an old black and white TV he found on the curb for you to watch, then you can talk about others’ privilege.

Until then, claiming “privilege,” because someone happens to be lighter than you, segregating them, so you can bitch about how horrible and insensitive they are, and then claiming to do so in the spirit of increasing understanding and support for one another is painfully lacking in self awareness.

It implies that the only “understanding” you’re interested in fostering is forcing those of us who you believe are privileged by virtue of the color of our skin to admit that we’re racist, insensitive oppressors. You don’t want those you consider victims to understand the plight of their counterparts. You couldn’t give an infected penis wrinkle about the experiences, pain, and plight of anyone who happens to be white. You’re only interested in flogging them into recognizing the alleged “plight” of everyone else…

…not based on any objective experience, mind you, because it’s not like they get to know the participants on a personal level, but based on skin color.

If that’s not racist, I don’t know what is!

And if you need any additional evidence about the narrow-minded  bigots that infest that particular institution of higher learning fanatical derangement, look no further than the kind of shit goblins it lets loose on the world.

Gideon Lanstra, 18, said everyone in her family voted for Trump but she supported Clinton. She said it’s very hard to be friends with anyone who supports the president. At Kennesaw State, where she attended classes last semester, her roommate backed Trump. “I got silent angry,” she recalled. “That means I’m not going to punch you or yell at you, but gosh I’m upset.” Now she’s trying to find an apartment with someone else.

You want to foster understanding? You might want to start with this perpetually aggrieved cunt hair, who can’t even live in the same apartment with someone who holds different views from her, and rage quits a living arrangement, because TRUMP!

You want to create an environment where people support one another? You might want to start with ensuring that everyone’s experiences, views, and ideas are respected and heard – not just those whom you consider to be victims of cis/white/hetero oppression.

Otherwise, I’ll call you exactly what you are. Racist, hysterical moonbats, who are working to set race relations back decades.

Here’s a clue: Jim Crow isn’t a progressive ideal.


18 responses

  1. Paul (Drak Bibliophile) Howard | Reply

    Can’t “Like”. Those morons are “sad sacks” at best and bigots at the worse. 😦


  2. You know, if it weren’t for some of the magnificently competent and patriotic persons of the colored persuasion that I have known in the military – and those who are my neighbors now (yes, my little working-class suburb pretty much reflects the national racial breakdown, although since Texas there is a larger Hispanic cohort) I’d be on the verge of saying “f–k it; you want white people outta here? Good with that. We’ll take our 70% share, build a wall, maintain our own institutions and territories, and never have to deal with your whining, your crime and familial dysfunction again. It’s been real, and it’s been fun, but it hasn’t been real fun. You keep your %13 percent, oh, you social justice warriors of color. Let us know how you get on, ‘kay?” (probably like Zimbabwe, which is fast running out of white people to blame their woes on.)
    Am I a racist now? Yep, thanks to the last eight years and a bunch of racial idiocy on display. Don’t care any more. That accusation has lost the power to sting, particularly.

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  3. “Here’s a clue: Jim Crow isn’t a progressive ideal.”
    It most certainly is, when aimed at straight whites, especially males.


  4. Just remember: it’s only wrong when Whites and/or Conservatives do it.

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  5. Well, lol, it’s finally come to this, after ‘no white people allowed’ spaces. *munches on snack, entertained*

    I bet they were suuuuper surprised to be called out as racist too!


  6. That’s academia for ya. I graduated from KSU many moons ago & even back in the day I’d laugh at the crises students manufactured so they could exercise their victim muscles.

    Related: My son attends school at a private university in KY, and belongs to the “Multicultural Association of Pre-Health Students.” He was also required to take a class called “Catholic Social Justice.” I can’t even imagine how he operates in an environment where he’s surrounded by people reminding him of privilege he never actually had much of (coming up as the son of a broke-ass single mom and a nearly absent jerk-face dad) – and especially after 10 years in the Army where mostly people DGAF who you are and just want you to do your job.


    1. Geeze, are you sure we’re not living parallel lives in some ways? My son is being forced to take these “liberal studies” classes, even though he’s a finance major. I got a text from him last year (joking) that since he’s the only white male in his class, and since he’s a redhead, he’s a minority and should be treated as such, but instead his professor was giving him low grades. GINGER DISCRIMINATION! LOL

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      1. Well, my kid’s medical, not finance and not a ginger, so does that mean you were a broke-ass single mom with a jerk-face ex-husband?


        1. Yepper! And despite this, my son still turned out stellar! 🙂

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        2. Wow – me, too. . . BAS mom, JF ex-husband, stellar son. We could form a group, but I’ll bet we’re just working too hard to be perpetually worked up over it.

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  7. “Now she’s trying to find an apartment with someone else.”

    Bye, Felicia.

    Some of these groups have ideas so wacky they bring about the very same behavior they say they’re trying to stop. Like this move by CSU to offer black students separate housing (racist!):


    1. I don’t have a problem with segregation per se. My problem is forcing it on someone.
      If some blacks have a problem with being around whites let them withdraw. But they should do it up right and move to Africa.


  8. The KSU student must be miserable in whitebread Cobb County. Maybe she should’ve gone to State.


  9. Thomas Hazlewood | Reply

    I’m a 67-year-old from Louisiana who has now lived to see Racism go full circle. It astonishes to hear demands FOR segregation by a race whose people once marched against it.

    It astonishes to hear rationalizations FOR racist words and acts from people who have a voice due to the exertions of those who fought against racism.


    1. Could not have said it better myself.

      I was wondering that too.


  10. cayleygraph2015 | Reply

    I don’t see any mischaracterization going on.

    Were the students separated by color?


    Now, now, they weren’t separated by the color they were, they were separated by the color “with which they identify”.

    I leave it as an exercise for the reader to determine if that makes it better or worse.


    1. Thank you for that moment of headdesking!


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